10 Things I No Longer Buy – Conscious Consumption Starts in the Mind

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There was a time when I’d walk through a store, pick up a beautifully packaged product and think, “Why not? I’ll give this a try.” I didn’t need it. I wasn’t sure I even wanted it. But somehow, buying something gave me a small hit of excitement. Today, I know: that wasn’t joy – it was habit. And that habit cost me more than money. It took space, time, energy – and sometimes even peace of mind.My journey away from impulse shopping didn’t feel like deprivation. It felt like liberation. Conscious consumption doesn’t begin in your wallet – it begins in your mind. Over time, I’ve stopped buying certain things completely – and honestly? I don’t miss them at all 🌿

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Why Conscious Consumption Is About More Than Saving Money

You might be thinking, “Come on, whether I buy a candle or not won’t change the world.” But that’s exactly where it starts. For the longest time, I thought conscious consumption meant cutting back. Living frugally. But I’ve learned that it’s not about restrictions – it’s about clarity.

Whenever I buy something now, I ask myself: Does this actually serve me – or am I trying to fill an emotional gap?

And the most beautiful thing? I’ve never felt richer. Owning less has made me feel more whole.

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10 Things I No Longer Buy – and Don’t Miss

1. ✨ Decorative Items Without Purpose

I used to buy every cute vase or shiny tray that crossed my path. Now I prefer airy spaces with a few intentional pieces. Less visual noise. More presence.

2. 🌿 Fast Fashion

I used to order trendy clothes from online shops – cheap, fast, forgettable. Now I build a capsule wardrobe that reflects who I am, not what’s in season.

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3. 🧼 Single-Use Items

Makeup wipes, cotton rounds, plastic bags – they’re not part of my life anymore. I switched to reusable options and haven’t looked back.

4. 🧴 Beauty Products “Just to Try”

I was a beauty addict. But all those half-used bottles? They stressed me out. Now I use a few selected natural skincare products I truly love – simple and effective. I can recommend e.g. Avocadostore*.

5. ☕ To-Go Drinks

I used to buy coffee or matcha to-go almost daily. Now I enjoy my drinks mindfully at home or bring my thermos on walks. It’s cheaper, calmer and more grounded.

6. 📦 Spontaneous Online Orders

Whenever I felt overwhelmed or bored, I’d click “buy now.” These days, I use a 24-hour pause rule. Most of the time, I forget about it – and that tells me enough.

7. 🕯️ Paraffin Candles

They looked cute but gave me headaches. Now I choose soy or beeswax candles and essential oil diffusers. My home feels calmer – and cleaner.

8. 🎁 Guilt-Based Gifts

I used to feel pressure to give “something nice,” even when I had no real idea. Now I give experiences, handwritten notes or simply time – or nothing at all. Honest gifting is beautiful.

9. ✍️ Notebooks I’ll Never Use

Yes, they’re beautiful. But I had a drawer full of empty ones. Now I use one digital system – and let the rest stay in the store.

10. 🍪 Emergency Snacks

I’d buy them “just in case” – and eat them just because. Now I shop fresh and intentionally, and snack mindfully instead of emotionally.

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Mini Prompt: The Most Powerful Question Before You Buy

“Do I want this – or do I just want to feel something right now?”

This simple question has saved me countless times. Often, it’s not the object I crave – it’s the feeling. When I recognize that, I pause. Breathe. Go for a walk or journal instead. And the urge fades 🌿

A New Sense of Abundance

It may sound strange, but not buying these things has made my life feel more full. I have more space in my home, more peace in my mind – and a deeper connection to the things I do own.

Conscious consumption isn’t about having less. It’s about wanting less. And when you want less, everything feels like more.

These days, I know when I’m truly treating myself – and when I’m trying to fill a void. The difference is huge. One leaves me lighter, the other heavier. One brings joy, the other just clutter.

Conclusion

The first step toward conscious living doesn’t happen in your wallet – it happens inside. It’s the moment you realize you’re already enough. You don’t need more – just what truly fits you.

I still remember walking home once with an empty tote bag – because nothing I saw really aligned with me. And I felt proud. Free. More myself than ever.

If you’re just beginning, try starting with one thing you’ll no longer buy. See what shifts. Let your own clarity grow from there 🌿

You’ll find more mindful inspiration and my favorite sustainable swaps in my newsletter – I’d love to see you there.

With love,
Marie

FAQs

Isn’t it restrictive to stop buying so many things?

Not for me – it feels like freedom. I can still buy anything I want. I just want less. That’s the real shift.

What if I realize later that I actually needed it?

Then I’ll buy it, mindfully. But honestly? That rarely happens. I’ve built my life so intentionally that most things are either unnecessary – or replaceable through borrowing or creativity.

How do I start if I want to consume more consciously?

Ask yourself before buying: “Would I still want this if I had to wait a week?” If yes – great. If not – it was probably a fleeting impulse.

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